2/26/2008

Tips to be Happy


I have dream and I believe that a lot of people have dream too…it’s the desire for the all those in this world to be happy and loving toward each other. Because I believe at our very human foundation we are caring, giving, loving and happy people, we come into this world happy. We know the feeling of joy. It’s not hateful or fearful.

Others have spoken of it. We can see it drift through our culture in the form of songs and books. It’s quiet and it’s subtle.

We started from the song by Michael Jackson….”If you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself, and make a change…..

There’s a movement towards claiming ourselves, claiming our thoughts, feelings and actions as our own. Of taking back the reins of ownership, responsibility and consequential control that comes with ownership. We are starting to take that outstretched finger we have been pointing at every one else, and turning it back towards ourselves. Not in blame, but for answers.

Then David Leonhardt, also known as The Happy Guy says we can take steps to keep our spirits up and take control of our own well-being during times of uncertainty and crisis. There are hundreds of little habits that can help us feel happier and some are particularly useful during times of uncertainty.


These are top tips for keeping our spirits up in wartime and crisis:
Be Positive mind
This is very important attitude to take the next steps.

Smile at strangers and friends alikeA smile is an instant mood-booster, both for the person smiling and for everyone else around. When you smile at someone, you will likely elicit a smile back from her, her return smile helps you. Smiles on people around us put a comforting face on what might otherwise seem like a scary world.
Don’t play the ‘play-by-play’ gameIt is important to keep abreast of how events are unfolding, but gluing yourself to war coverage is no recipe for happiness. The more war coverage we watch, the more we should watch something de-stressing.

Count blessings
Despite overwhelming events, people today enjoy more comforts, more things, more opportunity and more knowledge than ever before. Taking time to appreciate those things brings both comfort and a positive perspective.

Have faithHave faith believe in God is a great comfort to people in times like these. Many people who do not practice a faith believe in God, and this is an ideal time to seek out one’s spiritual side.
Learn a new skillLearning a new hobby or job skill adds excitement, a sense of accomplishment and a feeling of control.

Study history/ life experience
You don’t have to notice that history or life is full of wars, daily hardship and suppression, but is also full of wonder, perseverance, great deeds and recovery to give us hope even if events around us seem bleak at the moment, history shows that they will not always be that way.

Volunteer/help others
It gives us something to optimistic about and gives us a positive role to play. May be, volunteering at seniors home or food bank gives us back the power to make our world a better place.





As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fears, our presence automatically liberates others.


-Marianne Williamson, 1992, "a Return To Love"-

2/22/2008

What is Happiness...?

For me, happiness and unhappiness is like two opposite sides that sometimes come almost together. This time is unhappy but the next time it could be feel happy, oh my God….it’s so crazy.

Then I come to the definition that happiness and unhappiness are just opposite sides of a judgment about our situation. If I judge my situation as bad for me, that’s unhappiness. If I judge a situation as good for me, that’s happiness.


Some people use to say “I feel good emotionally “to express of how happy they are. The other people use different terms to describe what feels good for them, it might be excitement, passion, fulfillment, freedom, feeling fully alive with inspiration and joy, peaceful, capable, hopeful, satisfied and comfortable feeling. What ever you say, it just feels damn good.

Supposedly, our natural state of being is to be happy.

Jennifer Hautman said when you remove all the uncomfortable emotions we humans can experience (and they are numerous), you're left with happiness. So it's easiest to define happiness by what it is not. There is list that defines what you feeling when you are not feeling happy…

  • sad
  • down
  • jealous
  • guilt
  • angry
  • self doubt
  • depressed
  • hateful
  • fearful
  • worried
  • unsatisfied
  • bored
  • grief
  • shame
  • discontent
  • anxious
  • annoyed
  • angry
  • irritated
  • stressed
  • upset
So what is about pleasure?
They look similar but actually not. Pleasure is enjoyment of outside stimuli. We might find pleasure in buying a new house or in going on vacation or having friends over for dinner, or …having sex, or etc….what you might enjoy experiencing. Pleasure requires external stimuli for us to experience it. Happiness does not
We can be doing something we normally experience as pleasurable but not be happy.
Happiness has more deep meaning. Happiness is a belief about yourself and born from the internal workings of our own minds.


“Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
- Abraham Lincoln

2/19/2008

At Bangkok International Airport




A cup of coffee in the morning
Sugar & non dairy creamer
add the taste of 25 gate of Bangkok international airport
Weather is cloudy
and an hot cup of coffee
accompany my journey home
with my cloudy heart

30.8.06
at 06.56
W.W

2/15/2008

Today is my special day....!

Today is my special day. A lot of short message come to me saying happy birthday. Yeah…happy birthday to me…..! :)

In this my special day I want to talk about Self Awareness.

I knew the first time about self awareness when I involved in training in 2004 that my friend suggest to me. That time I just felt that I didn’t know about myself, I lost myself, I felt I am useless person.…then suddenly I was in the forum that talk about self awareness….

I feel that awareness is the first step in the creation process, and it’s better that every one knowing about this for the first step to move forward.

As you grow in self awareness, you understand why you feel what you feel and why you behave as you behave. That understanding then gives you the opportunity and freedom to change those things you’d like to change about yourself and create the life you want.

I suggest you to learn about self awareness because having clarity about who you are and what you want, why you want it, empowers you to consciously and actively make those wants a reality. Otherwise, you’ll continue to get “caught up” in your own internal dramas and unknown beliefs, allowing unknown thought processes to determine your feelings and action. If you don’t understand about what you do why you do and feel what you feel is like going through your life with a stranger’s mind. So, how do you make wise decisions and choices if you don’t understand what you want why you want? It’s a difficult and chaotic way to live never knowing what this stranger is going to do next.

When we ask about who’s the expert? So, it’s you.
When we want good, solid information, we turn to the experts. Who are you going to turn to for information about yourself? Of course it’s you.

A friend, a therapist, your parents, do they know more about you than you? I guess they can’t. You live in your body and mind 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. No one’s closer to you than you! The answer are in there, may be all you’ve needed to solve your riddles is a useful question.

2/10/2008

Dried leaves

Dried leaves have been falling
between you and me…
Please read for me…. 
For my blind heart
Yesterday, now ..and future
They look same for me…
Please determine for me
One that I remember
The song that you sing
Still ringing in my ear…
And make me happy…

07.04.07
W.W

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