Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts

3/21/2018

Berdamai Dengan Masa Lalu Membuat Hidupmu Lebih Indah

Sumber: www.newdaycounseling.org

Dia pernah mengisi hari-harimu menjadi lebih berwarna, membuatmu menjadi penting karena selalu mengutamakanmu betapapun sibuknya dia.  Namun dia pula yang mengingkari janjinya dan meninggalkan  luka yang teramat  dalam hingga mengaburkan segala kenangan indah yang pernah terjadi.  

Masa lalu yang menyakitkan memang sangat sullit dihilangkan dari pikiran kita, semakin ingin dilupakan semakin sering dia menghantui pikiran.  Dalam hati kecilmu sebenarnya ingin move on tapi susah sekali, kenangan menyakitkan itu datang lagi datang lagi. Menjadikanmu susah menerima kenyataan dan berdamai dengan diri sendiri.

Lalu apa yang harus dilakukan supaya bisa berdamai dengan masa lalu? 

Ada beberapa langkah yang bisa dilakukan untuk berdamai dengan masa lalu.

1. Keluarkan emosi

Sumber:iyakan.com

Biasanya hal pertama yang dilakukan ketika sakit hati adalah menangis untuk mengeluarkan emosi  maka  menangislah sepuasnya jika itu bisa melegakan hatimu.  

2. Jauhkan segala benda atau kenangan yang mengingatkan tentang masa lalu
Ini  memberikan ruang pada dirimu untuk menetralkan hatimu. Jangan tengok lagi semua media sosialnya. Benda-benda kenangan dari dia sebaiknya disimpan di tempat yang tidak mudah ditemukan lagi.

3. Menyibukkan diri dengan aktifitas yang bermanfaat

Sumber: www.gulalives.co

Menyibukkan diri dengan pekerjaan di rumah atau di kantor akan membuat pikiranmu menjadi sibuk dan tidak ada waktu lagi untuk memikirkan kesedihanmu. 

4. Berhenti merasa sebagai korban

Sumber: successwithpaul.net

Selalu merasa menjadi korban akan membuat mental menjadi down dan itu semakin  susah keluar dari masa lalu. Instrospeksi diri adalah salah satu cara terbaik untuk melupakan kenangan buruk yang menyakitkan itu. Renungkan lagi dan jadikan itu sebagai pembelajaran hidup di kemudian hari, agar  bisa menjadi orang yang lebih baik.

5. Mengikuti sesi terapi atau meditasi

Sumber: www.thunderclap.it

Jika traumanya sangat dalam, ada bagusnya mengikuti sesi terapi karena akan dibantu oleh para ahli dan dipantau perkembangannya.  Biasanya ada sesi meditasi untuk melepaskan beban  pikiran dan berdamai dengan masa lalu. 

6. Fokus  masa depan 

Sumber: www.codyjay.info

Buatlah catatan apa saja yang ingin dilakukan dalam hidup ini dan fokuslah untuk mencapainya. Tulislah apa saja yang telah kamu lakukan untuk mencapai  hal tersebut.  Dengan begitu kamu akan sibuk dengan tujuan-tujuan hidup yang ingin kamu raih dan bangga akan hasil pencapaianmu. 

Kamu bisa tersenyum  setelah itu dan menyadari  bahwa hidup ini indah dan kamu layak untuk berbahagia.

Sumber referensi:

  • keluarga.com
  • Opini penulis


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3/19/2018

Setiap Perbuatan Baik Sejatinya Akan Kembali Kepada Dirinya Sendiri

Sumber: www.fettke.com

Suatu ketika kamu berjalan dan berpapasan dengan seorang ibu di jalan, kamu tersenyum pada ibu tersebut. Lalu apa kira-kira yang akan dilakukan ibu itu? Pasti kamu bisa menebak bahwa Ibu itu akan tersenyum balik kepadamu. Itulah contoh kecil dari perbuatan baik dan langsung mendapat hadiahnya. Mudah sekali ya berbuat baik itu?

Mengutip dari www.bacaanmadani.com (10/2016), melakukan pekerjaan baik yang bermanfaat bagi diri sendiri dan bagi orang lain disebut amal baik. Berbuat kebaikan di manapun dan kapanpun akan membuat hidup ini akan lebih berarti. Dan biasakanlah melakukan sesuatu atau membantu orang lain dengan ikhlas karena seperti hukum kekekalan energi mengatakan bahwa energi dapat berubah dari satu bentuk ke bentuk yang lain tetapi tidak bisa diciptakan atau dimusnahkan. Jika perbuatan baik itu adalah sebuah energy maka orang yang melemparkan kebaikan kepada sesama sejatinya tidak akan hilang akan tetapi akan kembali kepada dirinya sendiri. Jadi berbuat baik akan memberikan dampak yang baik atau positif bagi kehidupan kita. Kira-kira apa saja dampaknya?

1. Merasa lebih baik

Saat kita tersenyum kepada orang lain dan bisa membuatnya tersenyum, maka kita akan merasa bahagia atau lebih baik.

2. Menjadi penyayang

Membiasakan berbuat baik membuat kita lebih toleran dan berempati kepada orang lain. Dengan begitu, kita cenderung menjadi orang yang penuh kasih sayang.

3. Akan mendapat balasan kebaikan

Jika kita berbuat baik, kita akan menerima balasan kebaikan pula pada saatnya nanti. Balasan yang kita terima bisa jadi bukan dari orang yang sama dan tidak secara langsung melainkan kita peroleh dari orang lain lagi dan di waktu yang tidak terduga. Semakin sering kita berbuat baik, maka semakin banyak pula kebaikan yang akan kita terima juga.

4. Menjadi contoh bagi orang lain

Jika kita sering berbuat baik kepada seseorang, orang lain akan mengamati dan mengikuti. Setelah itu mereka akan mencoba untuk berbuat baik juga.

5. Memberi kontribusi pada dunia untuk menjadi lebih baik

Perumpamaannya begini, jika kita memberikan kebaikan kepada orang lain, maka orang lain akan bahagia dan membuat lingkungan sekitar pun menjadi lebih baik karena penuh dengan aura positif. Dengan cara seperti ini, setiap orang akan merasa membahagiakan orang lain yang kemudian ikut berkontribusi menjadikan dunia lebih baik pula.

Lalu bagaimana caranya agar kita termotivasi untuk berbuat baik?

1. Membiasakan berpikir positif


Sumber: www.motivasi-islami.com

Berpikir positif akan membantu kita tetap tenang dalam situasi buruk sekalipun dan bisa mencari cara untuk keluar dari situasi tersebut. Memiliki pikiran positif akan memberikan perubahan dalam kehidupan menjadi lebih baik, membantu memecahkan masalah lebih mudah dan mampu menghadapi tantangan yang lebih hebat dalam hidup

2. Bersikap rendah hati


Sumber: www.gkjjoyodiningratan.org

Merasa diri lebih baik dari orang lain bukanlah sikap yang baik. Biasakanlah untuk menghormati orang lain khususnya orang yang lebih tua dari kita. Belajarlah untuk menghargai pendapat orang lain meskipun kita tidak menyetujui pendapatnya, juga menghargai orang-orang yang selama ini mendukung keberhasilan kita. Tidak cepat menilai orang lain sebelum mengenalnya dengan baik.

3. Menunjukkan ketulusan hati

Janganlah berbuat baik karena memiliki tujuan-tujuan tertentu. Berbuat baiklah karena kita mau membantu meringankan beban orang lain.

4. Tidak bermuka dua

Tentunya mengerti apa arti bermuka dua, yaitu didepan bersikap baik tetapi di belakang menjelek-jelekkannya.

5. Tidak melakukan diskriminasi

Bersikaplah baik kepada setiap orang tanpa pandang bulu. Janganlah membedakan perlakuan kita terhadap orang lain berdasarkan ras, usia, jenis kelamin, kemampuan, atau agama. Belajarlah untuk memberi perlakuan yang sama tanpa memandang status mereka. Orang-orang yang memiliki kualitas seperti ini dihargai di mata orang lain.

6. Belajar berempati


Sumber: mamahmuda.com

Berempati adalah mencoba menempatkan diri kita pada posisi orang lain. Hal ini akan memudahkan kita untuk memahami orang lebih baik. Berempati membuat hubungan menjadi lebih kuat karena kita berhasil memahami perasaan orang lain dan tidak egois.

7. Belajar saling berbagi


Sumber: family.fimela.com

Berbagi bisa berarti membagi makanan kepada teman atau memberikan sesuatu yang lebih penting, misalnya waktu, tempat, atau nasehat. Bermurah hati adalah salah satu arti bersikap baik. Berusahalah untuk memberikan lebih banyak daripada apa yang kita terima.

8. Menjadi pribadi yang bisa diandalkan

Salah satu cara bersikap baik orang lain adalah siap membantu jika mereka membutuhkan. Sebagai contoh membalas email, menjawab panggilan telepon, menyediakan waktu jika seseorang meminta kita mendengarkan. Jika seseorang meninggalkan pesan, segera telepon kembali sebab tidak baik membuat orang lain menunggu sampai berhari-hari. Jika berjanji harus ditepati. Mengingkari janji atau komitmen yang sudah dibuat akan merusak kepercayaan orang kepada kita.

Menjadi orang baik itu ternyata tidak sulit ya dan kita sudah tahu bagaimana dampak dari perbuatan baik itu. Maka mulai sekarang kita membiasakan diri untuk berbuat baik. Kita bisa juga mengambil panutan orang-orang yang kita hormati atau cintai sehingga kita memiliki model. Pelajari cara berpikir mereka, bagaimana perkataan dan tindakan-tindakan baik mereka terhadap sesama dan pahami maksudnya. Hal ini dapat menjadi inspirasi dan motivasi bagaimana orang-orang besar tersebut berproses dari awal kehidupan mereka hingga mereka bisa menjadi orang yang berpengaruh dan bermanfaat bagi seluruh umat manusia di dunia.

Sumber referensi:

  • www.bacaanmadani.com
  • intisari.grid.id
  • articara.net



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3/15/2018

Sakit Yang Diderita Stephen Hawking Tidak Menyurutkan Semangatnya Untuk Berkarya

Sumber foto: style.tribunnews.com

Hari ini kita mendengar kabar tentang meninggalnya seorang ahli fisika dan kosmologi yang terkenal dengan karya black holes, Stephen Hawking, di kediamannya Inggris pada Rabu, 14 Maret 2018 di usia 76 tahun. Secara pribadi saya mengucapkan turut berduka cita yang sedalam-dalamnya.

Seperti diketahui Stephen Hawking adalah seorang ilmuwan hebat yang hasil karyanya akan terus hidup sepanjang masa. Selain brilian dan humoris, Hawking juga seorang yang penuh semangat dan pantang menyerah yang mampu menginspirasi orang-orang di seluruh dunia. Dia pernah berkata, “Dunia ini tidak akan berarti tanpa ada rumah yang berisi orang-orang yang kamu cintai”.

Semangat dan pantang menyerah telah dibuktikan ketika Hawking melawan penyakit yang dideritanya yaitu penyakit motor neuron (MND). Pertama kali didiagnosis mengidap penyakit itu pada 1963, di usia 21 tahun.

Saat didiagnosis MND, dokter Hawking menyebut bahwa ia hanya memiliki umur hingga 2 tahun setelahnya. Namun, berkat kegigihannya ia selamat berpuluh-puluh tahun setelahnya, mungkin lebih lama dari pasien lainnnya dengan penyakit tersebut, Hawking menggunakan kursi roda untuk beraktifitas dan sistem komputer yang mutakhir untuk berbicara saat ia menjadi publik figur.

Penyakit motor neuron (MND) adalah penyakit yang menyebabkan saraf motorik rusak dan akhirnya berhenti bekerja. Karenanya, otot-otot yang rusak saraf pasokan secara bertahap kehilangan kekuatan mereka. 

Dikutip dari www.cnnindonesia.com, Rabu (14/3) disebutkan bahwa Motor Neuron Disease atau penyakit motor neuron memengaruhi orang-orang berbeda dalam berbagai cara. Penyakit ini membuat otot melemah secara bertahap dan semakin memburuk. 

Biasanya gejala pertama terbentuk di tangan dan lengan, atau kaki dan kaki. Gejala lainnya, ada juga yang mengenai otot-otot di sekitar wajah dan tenggorokan, sehingga tidak bisa berteriak atau bernyanyi. Gejala lainnya yang mungkin terjadi di antaranya, kram otot, kelelahan, 'kedutan' otot melemah, dan menyentak dari lengan atau kaki saat beristirahat. 

Menurut peneliti dari Universitas Teknologi Sydney Australia pada lima tahun lalu, seperti dilansir dari Radio Australia menduga penyebab penyakit saraf ini adalah racun yang ada dalam alga yang kemudian mencemari sumber makanan manusia. 

Zat racun tersebut mengikuti rantai makanan, dan jika seseorang terpapar racun tersebut bisa menyebabkan timbulnya penyakit saraf dalam sejumlah kasus. Zat tersebut bisa menyerupai zat-zat yang digunakan dalam memproduksi protein dalam tubuh manusia.

Namun, itu baru salah satu temuan yang masih perlu diteliti lebih jauh. Hingga kini, penyebab lebih dari 90 persen kasus penyakit saraf motor neuron masih belum diketahui.

Meski didiagnosis penyakit yang melumpuhkannya, Hawking masih tetap bekerja. Dalam salah satu wawancara, Hawking pernah memperkirakan bahwa dia bekerja 1.000 jam selama tiga tahun sarjana di Oxford. Sejak didiagnosis penyakit motor neuron, Hawking justru meraih banyak hal. Hawking meninggalkan tiga anak, Robert, Lucy dan Timothy, dari pernikahan pertamanya dengan Jane Wilde, dan tiga cucu.

Selamat jalan Stephen Hawking.

Sumber referensi:

  • www.cnnindonesia.com
  • style.tribunnews.com

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3/13/2018

Menemukan Rasa Baik

Sumber: pribadi

Pernahkah mengalami perasaan khawatir  tanpa sebab, ketakutan yang berlebihan,  atau tiba-tiba saja mood berubah? Saya yakin pasti beberapa orang telah mengalaminya karena saya pernah mengalaminya bahkan berkali-kali.

Ketika perasaan khawatir, takut dan mood yang berubah itu datang yang saya rasakan adalah saya seperti diselimuti awan-awan kelabu dan badan saya bisa letih karenanya.
Perasaan tidak enak tersebut bisa membuat hari yang saya alami pun menjadi tidak nyaman bahkan berantakan dan pada akhirnya  membuat rasa itu semakin berat. Rasa yang berat dan melelahkan itu bila dipendam dan didiamkan saja tentu tidak baik terutama untuk diri sendiri, saya bisa menjadi ratu drama. Saya merasa hidup saya tidak bahagia, selalu salah, saya merasa hidup saya selalu ada hambatan-hambatan, tidak selalu mudah, tidak selalu lancar, tidak selalu wujud dan sering kali saya merasa hidup saya banyak kesulitan. Saya pun merasa “kenapa saya begini?” sangat frustasi,  saya mau move on, tetapi perasaan saya berat dan saya bisa malas untuk mulai.

Saya namakan rasa tidak enak itu rasa negatif. Lalu apa yang saya lakukan untuk melepasakan rasa negatif itu?

Saya melatih cara yang menurut saya sederhana dan semua orang bisa melakukannya yaitu dengan memperbaiki nafas. Sebelumnya saya tidak menyadari manfaat dari bernafas itu, bernafas ya bernafas saja. Ternyata setelah saya memperbaiki cara saya bernafas, ada perubahan didalam rasa saya. Rasa negatif yang saya alami berangsur-angsur berkurang dan kemudian beralih menjadi rasa positif, rasa yang baik, rasa yang enak, rasa yang menyenangkan, rasa yang optimis.

Sebagai langkah pertama untuk memperbaiki nafas adalah bernafas dengan sadar dan membuat energi mengalir dengan cara menarik nafas dengan panjang melalui hidung, tidak terburu-buru dan sadar sedang menarik nafas. Kemudian mengeluarkan nafas melalui hidung, tidak terburu-buru dan setiap melepas saya juga melepas rasa sakit di badan saya, rasa letih di badan saya, rasa berat di badan saya. Satu-persatu rasa itu dilepaskan sambil membuang nafas dengan panjang. Ini saya lakukan dengan tekun sampai fokus dan bisa merasakan aliran nafas yang saya hirup dan lepaskan.

Langkah kedua adalah melepas intensitas, beratnya, sesaknya perasaan negatif didalam dada. Hasilnya adalah ikhlas. Caranya adalah menghirup nafas panjang, tidak terburu-buru dengan rasa menerima lalu menghembuskan nafas sambil mengeluarkan rasa negatif,rasa kecewa, rasa marahnya dari badan saya. Ini dilakukan sampai rasa negatif itu hilang, memang tidak mudah namun jika dilakukan dengan tekun dan sabar rasa negatif itu perlahan-lahan akan hilang dan akan timbul rasa lega, rasa ikhlas.

Langkah ketiga, setelah rasa negatif itu hilang, saya melatih rasa syukur melalui perasaan yaitu menghirup nafas dengan rasa yang positif, bahwa apapun yang telah saya alami adalah baik untuk saya dan ketika menghembuskan nafas juga sambil mengeluarkan rasa yang sama yaitu apapun yang telah saya alami adalah baik untuk hidup saya.

Melatih nafas dengan cara yang saya lakukan diatas jika dilakukan dengan tekun, rajin dan terus-menerus akan memberikan hasil yang positif dan rasa saya menjadi baik. Rasa yang baik itu sangat saya butuhkan untuk menjalani kehidupan  karena dengan rasa yang baik hidup saya menjadi lebih baik. Setiap saya rajin melatih nafas, saya akan mulai peka tentang pikiran, perasaan dan tindakan saya dan itu semua proses menuju saya sebagai orang baik.

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12/25/2013

What is 'Mind' ?


The mind is a picture of life. Mind is vibration. Mind is force and energy. Mind is the creative force. Mind is the soul. It has a color, sound and density. Nothing is more powerful than the mind so it is not wrong if there is a statement that you are what you think.

Every aspect of life was also raised by the mind. the thought is noble, despicable, low, noble, good and evil. All the success and failure is the result of our thoughts.

Everything you like is the mind. Everything you hate is the mind. Everything you feel is the mind. Emotions raised by the mind. Everything you see is mind materialized. Everything you hear is the sound wave consisting of the mind. To create something, you should start by looking in your mind. The mind is always there first. The action is a direct result of the mind.

You can obtain your desires if you control your thoughts. To learn how to do this, people need to understand that the mind produces a double effect that is vibration and shape.

Vibration is a wave of feeling that comes from the mind of the thinker. The thrill of it reveals the character of a thought. For example, the mind can be kind, loving, generous or angry. A vibration is also known as a thought wave.

While the form of the mind is a spiritual picture in mind. For example if we think about an apple, the mind form a picture of an apple. If we think of a friend or lover, the mind form a picture of that person.

Note: this article is not fully product of my own mind, it comes from various books I read.

6/29/2008

Let’s Fight!

The best thing you can do to change your life is to fight for yourself. What I mean by fighting for yourself is that you need to do things that ultimately help you in some way. Always watch for things that you can do that give you something positive.

Even if the walk is kind of short, or you miss a couple of days, it still counts in helping you out in the long run. Always remember that you will eventually get a reward for your hard effort.

It doesn't matter what the task is, as long as you keep in mind that you are doing it for you! If you need a job and you fill out an application every day, then you are giving yourself the best chance to get employed. If you want to quit smoking and you refuse to smoke on your smoke break just one time, then you are fighting for yourself. It doesn't matter what it is, but you have to decide to make the change.

The hardest part about fighting for yourself is doing things that you think are impossible for you. The trick here is to see if you can do a part of it or do it just one time. If you want to get in shape and think you couldn't do push ups, try doing just one of them. If you can do one then with practice and time you can do more.

Always be willing to do things you never did before. You will be surprised at what you can do and what talents you have. These other abilities may lead you in a different direction in life. It may be better for you in the long run to go in a new direction, especially if your current situation is not that great.

Nothing is going to happen in your life just because you want it to. You have to make things happen for you. You have to take the steps to get the chance at the things you want. Fighting for yourself means that you are making sure that you get that chance in life.

3/04/2008

The Author of The Famous Five: Enid Blyton


Enid Blyton is British writer who published over 600 children's or juvenile books during her 40-year career. Blyton's most famous series was The Famous Five. Its central characters were Julian, Dick, Anne, George, and the dog Timmy. Her works celebrated good food, spirit of comradeship, and honesty. By the 1980s, Blyton's books had sold some 60 million copies and had been translated into nearly seventy languages.

"Anne saw some cows pulling at the grass in a meadow as they passed. 'It must be awful to be a cow and eat nothing but tasteless grass,' she called to George. 'Think what a cow misses - never tastes an egg and lettuce sandwich, never eats a chocolate aclair, never has a boiled egg - and can't even drink a glass of ginger-beer! Poor cows!'" (from Five Get Into Trouble, 1949)

Enid Mary Blyton was born on 11 August 1897 at 354 Lordship Lane, East Dulwich, London, the eldest child of Thomas Carey Blyton (1870 – 1920), a salesman of cutlery, and his wife, Theresa Mary, née Harrison (1874 – 1950). There were two younger brothers, Hanly (b. 1899), and Carey (b. 1902), who were born after the family had moved to the nearby suburb of Beckenham. From 1907 to 1915, Blaydon was educated at St. Christopher’s School in Beckenham, where she excelled at her Endeavour, leaving as head girl. She enjoyed physical activities along with the academic work, but not maths.

From her earliest childhood, Blyton had been schooled in the belief that she would eventually be a musician. However, she had also started to write and send stories, articles, and poems to various periodicals. Although her family thought, that most of her writing was a waste of time, she remained undaunted. Her first published poem, entitled 'Have You-?' - appeared in Nash's Magazine (1917).

Blyton's first book, Child Whispers (1922), was a collection of verse. This twenty-four-page work was followed by Real Fairies: Poems (1923), Responsive Singing Games (1923), The Enid Blyton Book of Fairies (1924), Songs of Gladness (1924), The Zoo Book (1924), and other books published by J. Saville and Newnes.

Blyton, who was trained as a kindergarten teacher at Ipswich High School, opened her own infants' school. When the literary commitments increased, Blyton devoted herself entirely to writing. In 1926 Blyton took on the editing a new magazine for children, Sunny Stories. Her stories, plays, and songs for Teachers' World were received with enthusiasms. She also compiled a children's encyclopedia, but it was not until in the 1930s, when her stories started to attract a wider audience.

In 1924 Blyton married Hugh Pollock, an editor of the book department of George Newnes. When she visited a gynecologist, she was told that she had a much underdeveloped uterus, equivalent to that of a young girl. Enid and Hugh moved soon to Elfin Cottage, a newly built house in Shortlands Road, Beckenham, which Blyton eventually called her first "real home". In 1929 they moved to "Old Thatch", a large sixteenth-century cottage, close to the River Thames at Bourne End in Buckinghamshire. The house, that was to be associated with Blyton for the rest of her life, was Green Hedges. It was built of red brick with black and white half-timbered gables, and situated in Beaconsfield, a small town about twenty-five miles from London.


In the mid-1930s Blyton experienced a spiritual crisis, but she decided not to convert to Roman Catholicism, because she had felt it was "too constricting". Although she rarely attended church services, she saw that her two daughters were baptized into the Anglican faith and went to the local Sunday School. Blyton's first full-length children's adventure book, The Secret Island, was published in 1938. This fast-moving story, woven around familiar characters, led to such series as The Famous Five, The Secret Seven, the Adventure series, the Mystery series, and the 'Barney' Mystery books.

During World War II, when publishing was restricted, Blyton managed to get her works printed. In the following decades she ruled the field of juvenile literature. Blyton could write 10,000 words a day, which enabled her to keep up her prodigious output. In 1940 eleven books were published under her name, including The Secret of Spiggy Holes, which had appeared earlier in serial form in Sunny Stories, Twenty-Minute Tales and Tales of Betsy May, both collections of short stories, The Children of Cherry Tree Farm, and a story book annual for the News Chronicle. The remainder were brought out by George Newnes, who continued as Blyton's main publisher. Under the pseudonym Mary Pollock she wrote Three Boys and a Circus and Children of Kidillin.

Blyton's marriage ended in 1942. Next year she married Kenneth Darrell Waters, a middle-aged surgeon. An exploding shell at the Battle of Jutland during First World War had permanently impaired his hearing, but helped with a hearing aid, he could pick up Blyton's speech. He was also genuinely interested in her work and they shared many interests in common, including gardening. According to Duncan McClaren, Blyton ridiculed her first husband in the character of PC Goon, a bumbling policeman in the Mystery series.

In 1945 Blyton decided to wind up her column for Teachers' World. Seven years later she withdrew from Sunny Stories. In 1953 appeared the first edition of Enid Blyton Magazine. Regular news was given for sponsored clubs. The Famous Five Club originated through a series of book about the 'Famous Five'. After the publication of the first story in 1942 a new title followed each year. The main object of the magazine was to help the young spastic children and the special centre in London.

In 1949 appeared Little Noddy Goes to Toyland, a story of a little toy man, who always ends up in trouble and has to seek help from his Toyland friends. Its sales exceeded expectations. Other Noddy books of various sizes and types followed in rapid succession. The stories were illustrated by Van Der Beek who died suddenly in Holland in 1953. 'Noddy' became a household name, the subject of music hall jokes and sketches. and the series also produced a play and a film.

In the 1950s and 1960s Blyton was attacked by critics. Moreover, librarians imposed sanctions on her writings owing to the books' limited vocabulary. The main target for anti-Blytons was Noddy, "the most egocentric, joyless, snivelling and pious anti-hero in the history of British fiction", as he was once called. Rumours were spread, that she did not write all her own works. The "banning" did not last long and eventually Blyton's ability to encourage children to read was recognized generally. At the end of the 1990s, well over 300 Blyton titles were still in print, including editions of the Famous Five stories linked to the popular television serialization (1995) and modern adventure games, also based on the Famous Five series.

Enid Blyton Magazine was closed in 1959. In the early sixties the author found it increasingly difficult to concentrate to writing. Her husband died in 1967. During the months that followed, her own illness grew progressively worse. Blyton died in her sleep on November 28, 1968, in a Hampsted nursing home. Although her books have been criticized for racism, sexism, and snobbishness, they have always found new readers from new generations.

"She was a child, she thought as a child and she wrote as a child," has the psychologist Michael Woods summarized the secret of her writing.

3/02/2008

The Creator of Detective Conan : GOSHO AOYAMA



Gosho Aoyama is a manga artist and best known as the creator of the manga series Detective Conan (known in the USA, Canada, and the UK as Case Closed). I‘ve been curious to wait when Conan will find the formula to cure his body.

He was born on June 21, 1963 in Daiei, Tottori Prefecture, Japan as Yoshimasa Aoyama. Aoyama was a genius at drawing even when he was young. His painting of “Yukiai War” won a competition and displayed at the Tottori Daimaru Department Store when he was in Grade 1 (in elementary school).

After finishing high school at Ikuei High School, he studied to Nihon University College of Art in Tokyo. During his university years (winter 1986), Aoyama joined a comic contest for freshmen and won, which was a stepping-stone for his career as a manga artist (mangaka) and author, as well as a turning point for his life.

Aoyama's debut work was Chotto Mattete, published in the weekly magazine Shonen Sunday on winter 1987. Soon after that, Magic Kaito was published on the same magazine.

At the beginning of the 90's, another story done by Aoyama named Yaiba was out. This 24-volume manga won the Shogakukan Manga Award for shōnen in 1993. He won the Shogakukan Manga Award a second time in 2001, for Detective Conan. Other works were released as tankōbon included Third Basemen No. 4, Gosho Aoyama’s Collection of Short Stories, and Detective Conan.

On May 5, 2005, he married voice actress for Conan of the Detective Conan anime and also singer Minami Takayama, but they divorced on December 10, 2007.



Gosho Aoyama manga works

Wait a Minute(Chotto Mattete) (1987)
Aoyama's first manga story, published in Shonen Sunday. It's about a boy genius named Yutaka Takai, whose time machine jetpack sends his love interest through time for two years.

Yaiba (1988-1993)
Tells the adventures of the young samurai Yaiba Kurogane. It won a 1992 Shogakukan Manga Award and was adapted into a 51-episode anime series.

3rd Base 4th (Yonban Sādo) (1993)
A 1-volume baseball manga. It tells the story of a boy named Shigeo Nagashima, a mediocre baseball player on his high school team. One day, he buys a magical bat from a sporting goods store that allows him to hit every pitch. However, he has to pay the mysterious store for each pitch he hits.

Magic Kaito (Majikku Kaito) (1988-2007)A 4-volume manga series (The fourth volume was released in February 2007, 13 years after the third volume) which tells the comical adventures of Kaitou Kid, a gentleman thief who often uses his skills in magic and disguise in every robbery he commits. Although the manga series is on pause, Kaitou Kid still appears regularly in Detective Conan.

Gosho Aoyama’s Collection of Short Stories

Various short works written over the years:

  • Play It Again (Play It Again)
  • Excalibur (Excalibur)
  • Santa Claus in the summer (Natsu no Santa Clau)
  • The detective George's job (Detective George's little little & great operations (Tantei Jooji no minimini daisakusen)
  • Wait a Minute (Chotto Mattete)
  • Shonen Sunday 19(talk) show "The wandering red butterfly" (Sunday 19(to-ku) show samayoeru akai chou)
  • Detective Conan or Case Closed (Meitantei Konan) - (1994-present)Aoyama's most well-known creation, it tells the story of a genius high school detective who one day is turned into a young boy by mysterious men. While trying to track down these men, he often encounters complicated mysteries, most of which only he can solve.
  • Tell Me A Lie (Watashi ni Uso wo Tsuite) - (2007)
    This is a one-shot manga about a girl named Terumi Arai (Arai Terumi), who can read people's minds when she looks them in the eyes.


2/22/2008

What is Happiness...?

For me, happiness and unhappiness is like two opposite sides that sometimes come almost together. This time is unhappy but the next time it could be feel happy, oh my God….it’s so crazy.

Then I come to the definition that happiness and unhappiness are just opposite sides of a judgment about our situation. If I judge my situation as bad for me, that’s unhappiness. If I judge a situation as good for me, that’s happiness.


Some people use to say “I feel good emotionally “to express of how happy they are. The other people use different terms to describe what feels good for them, it might be excitement, passion, fulfillment, freedom, feeling fully alive with inspiration and joy, peaceful, capable, hopeful, satisfied and comfortable feeling. What ever you say, it just feels damn good.

Supposedly, our natural state of being is to be happy.

Jennifer Hautman said when you remove all the uncomfortable emotions we humans can experience (and they are numerous), you're left with happiness. So it's easiest to define happiness by what it is not. There is list that defines what you feeling when you are not feeling happy…

  • sad
  • down
  • jealous
  • guilt
  • angry
  • self doubt
  • depressed
  • hateful
  • fearful
  • worried
  • unsatisfied
  • bored
  • grief
  • shame
  • discontent
  • anxious
  • annoyed
  • angry
  • irritated
  • stressed
  • upset
So what is about pleasure?
They look similar but actually not. Pleasure is enjoyment of outside stimuli. We might find pleasure in buying a new house or in going on vacation or having friends over for dinner, or …having sex, or etc….what you might enjoy experiencing. Pleasure requires external stimuli for us to experience it. Happiness does not
We can be doing something we normally experience as pleasurable but not be happy.
Happiness has more deep meaning. Happiness is a belief about yourself and born from the internal workings of our own minds.


“Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
- Abraham Lincoln

2/15/2008

Today is my special day....!

Today is my special day. A lot of short message come to me saying happy birthday. Yeah…happy birthday to me…..! :)

In this my special day I want to talk about Self Awareness.

I knew the first time about self awareness when I involved in training in 2004 that my friend suggest to me. That time I just felt that I didn’t know about myself, I lost myself, I felt I am useless person.…then suddenly I was in the forum that talk about self awareness….

I feel that awareness is the first step in the creation process, and it’s better that every one knowing about this for the first step to move forward.

As you grow in self awareness, you understand why you feel what you feel and why you behave as you behave. That understanding then gives you the opportunity and freedom to change those things you’d like to change about yourself and create the life you want.

I suggest you to learn about self awareness because having clarity about who you are and what you want, why you want it, empowers you to consciously and actively make those wants a reality. Otherwise, you’ll continue to get “caught up” in your own internal dramas and unknown beliefs, allowing unknown thought processes to determine your feelings and action. If you don’t understand about what you do why you do and feel what you feel is like going through your life with a stranger’s mind. So, how do you make wise decisions and choices if you don’t understand what you want why you want? It’s a difficult and chaotic way to live never knowing what this stranger is going to do next.

When we ask about who’s the expert? So, it’s you.
When we want good, solid information, we turn to the experts. Who are you going to turn to for information about yourself? Of course it’s you.

A friend, a therapist, your parents, do they know more about you than you? I guess they can’t. You live in your body and mind 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. No one’s closer to you than you! The answer are in there, may be all you’ve needed to solve your riddles is a useful question.

1/25/2008

Le Grand Voyage

I am very fond of this movie! I just share this article...but I just copied ...

This film tells about father and son. Réda is a French-Moroccan teenager due to sit for Baccalauréat. When his devout father asks Réda to accompany him on a pilgrimage to Mecca, he reluctantly agrees. However, the father insists that they travel by car. As both embark on a road trip thousands of kilometers away from southern France, the once-icy father-and-son relationship starts to thaw as both gradually come to know each other.

Along the way, the two meet several interesting characters. The son learns about Islam and why his father thought it would be preferable to make the pilgrimage by car rather than by airplane.

The route taken by the father and son goes from France through Italy, Slovenia, Croatia, Serbia, Bulgaria, Turkey, Syria, and Jordan before reaching Saudi Arabia. According to the Internet Movie Database, the film was actually shot in some of these countries, namely France, Slovenia, Bulgaria, and Turkey. Most scenes that were set in the middle east were shot in Morocco. However, some scenes involving the two principal actors were actually shot in Mecca. While the Saudi Arabian government had previously permitted documentary crews to shoot in Mecca, this was the first fiction feature permitted to shoot during the Hajj. The film's director, Ismael Ferroukhi, said that while shooting in Mecca, "no one looked at the camera; people didn't even seem to see the crew - they're in another world."

Whatever….but what is interesting to me is how the relationship between father and son.

Directed by Ismaël Ferroukhi
Produced by Humbert Balsan
Written by Ismaël Ferroukhi
Starring Nicolas Cazalé,
Mohamed Majd
Distributed by Pyramide Distribution
Release date(s) September 7, 2004
Running time 108 min
Language Moroccan Arabic, French

Cast
Nicolas Cazalé – Réda
Mohamed Majd – The Father
Jacky Nercessian – Mustapha
Ghina Ognianova – The old woman
Kamel Belghazi – Khalid
Atik Mohamed – Le pélerin Ahmad

A Beautiful Mind


A Beautiful Mind is a 2001 America biographical film about , John Forbes Nash, the Nobel Laureate (Economics) mathematician. The film was directed by Ron Howard and written by Akiva Goldsman. It was inspired by a bestselling,Pulitzer Prize-nominated 1998 book of the same name by Sylvia Nasar. The film starsRussel Crowe, along with Jennifer Connely, Ed Harris and Paul Bettany.


The story begins in the early years of Nash's life at Princeton University
as he develops his "original idea" that will revolutionize the world of mathematics. Later, Nash develops schizophrenia and endures paranoid and delusional episodes while painfully watching the loss and burden his condition brings on his wife and friends.

Plot

The film opens with John Nash arriving as a new graduate student at Princeton University.
He is a recipient of the prestigious Carnegie Prize for mathematics. He meets his roommate Charles, a literature student, who soon becomes his best friend. He also meets a group of other promising math and science graduate students, Martin Hansen, Sol, and Bender, with whom he strikes up an awkward friendship. Nash admits to Charles that he is better with numbers than people, and that he strives for a truly original idea for his thesis paper. He is largely unsuccessful with the women at the local bar. However, the experience is what ultimately inspires his fruitful work in the concept of governing dynamics, a theory in mathematical economics. After the conclusion of Nash's studies as a student at Princeton, he accepts a prestigious appointment at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT), along with his friends Sol and Bender.

Five years later while teaching a class on Calculus,
he meets Alicia, a student with whom he falls in love and eventually marries. While at Princeton, Nash runs into his former roommate Charles and meets Charles' young niece Marcee. He also encounters a mysterious Department of Defense agent, William Parcher. Nash is invited to a United States Department of Defense facility in The Pentagon to crack a complex encryption of an enemy telecommunication. Nash is able to decipher the code mentally. Parcher observes Nash's performance from above, while partially concealed behind a screen. Parcher later encourages Nash to look for patterns in magazines and newspapers, ostensibly to thwart a Soviet plot. After being chased by the Russians and an exchange of gunfire, Nash becomes increasinglyparanoid and begins to behave erratically.
After observing this erratic behavior, Alicia informs a psychiatric hospital. Later, while giving a lecture, Nash realizes that he is being watched by a hostile group of people. Although he attempts to flee, he is forcibly sedated and sent to a psychiatric facility.
Nash's internment seemingly confirms his belief that the Soviets were trying to extract information from him, and that being taken by the officials of a psychiatric facility was a kidnapping by Soviet agents. Alicia, desperate to help her husband, visits a drop-box and retrieves the never-opened "top secret" documents that Nash had delivered there. When confronted with this evidence, Nash is finally convinced that he has been hallucinating. The Department of Defense agent William Parcher and Nash's secret assignment to decode Soviet messages was in fact all a delusion. Even more surprisingly, Nash's friend Charles and his niece Marcee are also only products of Nash's mind.

After a painful series of insulin shock therapy
sessions, Nash is released on the condition that he agrees to take antipsychotic medication. However, the drugs create negative side-effects that affect his relationship with his wife and, most dramatically, his intellect. Frustrated, Nash secretly stops taking his medication, triggering a relapse of his psychosis. While bathing his infant son, Nash becomes distracted and wanders off. Alicia barely manages to save their child from drowning. When she confronts Nash, he claims that his friend Charles was watching their son. Alicia runs to the phone to call the psychiatric hospital for emergency assistance. Charles, Marcee, and Parcher all appear to John and urge him to kill his wife rather than allow her to lock him up again. After Alicia flees the house in terror, Nash steps in front of her car to prevent her from leaving. After a moment, Nash states "She never gets old" as he observes that Marcee is the same age that she was when he first met her several years before. Only then does he accept that all three of these people are, in fact, part of his psychosis.

Caught between the intellectual paralysis of the antipsychotic drugs and his delusions, Nash and his wife decide to try to live with his abnormal condition schizophrenia.
Nash attempts to ignore his hallucinations and not feed "his demons", that’s really interesting. Nash is growing older while working on his studies in the library of Princeton University. He still suffers hallucinations and periodically has to check if new people he meets are real, mentions taking newer medications, but is ultimately able to live with and largely ignore his psychotic experiences. Nash approaches his old friend and intellectual rival Martin Hansen, now head of the Princeton mathematics department, and receives permission to work out of the library and audit classes. He eventually begins teaching again. He is honored by his fellow professors for his achievement in mathematics, and goes on to win the Nobel Memorial Prize in Economics for his revolutionary work on game theory. Later, Nash and Alicia are about to leave the auditorium in Stockholm, when John sees Charles, Marcee and Parcher standing and smiling. Alicia asks John "What's wrong?" John replies "Nothing." With that, they both leave the auditorium.

Cast
Russel Crowe as John Forbes Nash. A mathematical genius who is obsessed with finding an original idea to ensure his legacy.Jennifer Connelly as Alicia Nash. A later student of Nash who catches his interest.Paul Bettany as Charles Herman. Nash's roommate and best friend throughout graduate college.Ed Harris as William Parcher. A government agent for the Department of Defense. He enlists Nash to help fight Soviet spies.Josh Lucas as Martin Hansen. Nash's rival from his graduate school years at Princeton.Adam Goldberg as Sol. A friend of Nash's from Princeton University who is chosen, along with Bender, to work with him at MIT.Anthony Rapp as Bender. A friend of Nash's from Princeton University who is chosen, along with Sol, to work with him at MIT.Vivien Cardone as Marcee. Charles' niece.Christopher Plummer as Dr. Rosen. Nash's doctor at a psychiatric hospital.Judd Hirsch as Helinger. The head of the Princeton mathematics department.

In 2002,
the film was awarded four Oscars for Adapted Screenplay (Akiva Goldsman), Best Picture (Brian Grazer and Ron Howard), Directing (Ron Howard), and Supporting Actress (Jennifer Connelly). It also received four other nominations for Best Actor in a Leading Role (Russel Crowe), Film Editing (Mike Hill and Daniel P. hanley), Best Makeup (Greg Cannom and Colleen Callaghan) and Original Music Score (James Horner).

The 2002 BAFTAs
awarded the film Best Actor and Best Actress to Russell Crowe and Jennifer Connelly, respectively. It also nominated the film for Best Film, Best Screenplay, and the David Lean Award for Direction. At the 2002 AFI Awards, Jennifer Connelly won for Best Featured Female Actor. The film was also nominated for Movie of the Year, Actor of the Year (Russell Crowe), and Screenwriter of the Year.

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Book Review: A History of God

A History of God: The-4000 Year Quest of Judaism, Christianity and Islam is a best-selling book by author Karen Armstrong. It describes the history of the three major monotheistic religions in detail. The book has been praised for its "astounding research" and "deft storytelling." The book traces the evolution of the idea of God as interpreted by the great thinkers of the three monotheistic traditions or "God religions", Judaism, Christianity and Islam, from their roots in pagan traditions of the Middle East up to the modern day.

Karen Armstrong begins with the rise of the cult of Jahweh among the pagan deities of Canaan. She also examines the sources of the Pentateuch in the figures of the four supposed authors (or groups of authors) known as J, E, P and D. After this, she examines the philosophical careers of some of the major Israelite prophets, including Isaiah, second Isaiah, Hosea and Ezekiel and examines the contribution that each made to the Jewish conception of God. Armstrong turns next to the life and career of Jesus, including his roots in the Pharisaic tradition of Rabbi Hillel, and the his effect on the Jewish conception of God. His death and its attendant symbolism are then examined, including the interpretations various authors, most notably Paul, brought to these events. After Christ's death, the book explores the rise of trinitarianism leading to the. Nicene creed. Karen Armstrong traces the evolution of the contrasting Eastern and Western Christian conceptions of God and the trinity. The rise of Islam and its subsequent take on the nature of God are examined next with Armstrong analyzing how Shia Islam, with its' emphasis on direct political action in service to Allah, led to the 1978 Iranian Revolution. Karen Armstrong continues her narrative through the rise of philosophical and mystical traditions in Islam, Christianity, both Eastern and Western and Judaism, up until the pre-modern era. Armstrong discusses the rise of modern Christian religiosity, in particular the Protestantism of Martin Luther and John Calvin. Karen Armstrong concludes with a speculative discussion of the place of God in the post-modern world.

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